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Re: Forgiving people or keeping a grudge

Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2018 9:39 pm
by pink freud
bessantj wrote:
YOYO wrote:
bessantj wrote:
YOYO wrote:I may be a rubbish forumer and swarmist but don’t you dare say it to me, because what I do have are a very particular set of skills, skills I have acquired over a very long career. Skills that make me a nightmare for people like you. If you stop slagging me off now, that'll be the end of it. I will not look for you, I will not pursue you. But if you don't, I will look for you, I will find you, and I will kill you.
Hope you got it. Apart from that have a nice life.
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What the fùck did you just fùcking say about me, you little bitch? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Royal Marines, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I’m the top sniper in the entire British armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fùck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fùcking words. You think you can get away with saying that shit to me over the Internet? Think again, fùcker. As we speak I am contacting my secret network of spies across the world and your IP is being traced right now so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. You’re fùcking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over seven hundred ways, and that’s just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in unarmed combat, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the British Royal Marines and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the continent, you little shit. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little “clever” comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your fùcking tongue. But you couldn’t, you didn’t, and now you’re paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will shit fury all over you and you will drown in it. You’re fùcking dead, kiddo.
I could have killed ‘em all, I could kill you. On the Welsh rugby thread you’re the law, on here it’s me. Don’t push it. Don’t push it or I’ll give you a war you won’t believe. Let it go. Let it go.
God, I've never been more erect.
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Re: Forgiving people or keeping a grudge

Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2018 9:49 pm
by pink freud
I can't forgive or forget until there's a consequence for what they've done....that's why revenge is always so tempting...the problem is revenge never goes and ends well for some reason....you think you've nailed it and wham! they throw a curl ball back at you...usually blatant lies as they squirm their way out of it.

On the other hand if people sincerely apologize I'll forgive and forget with great relief as I hate holding grudges...it can...over time make you sick.

Re: Forgiving people or keeping a grudge

Posted: Fri Feb 09, 2018 11:05 pm
by Green Highlander
Openside wrote:
Green Highlander wrote:
Bessantj. No I haven't spoken to her for over a year, since she came round and attacked my girlfriend when she wouldn't let her just walk into the house. (Honestly unprovoked - my girlfriend is a barrister, so she wasn't about to do anything that would draw a complaint - and we're not that sort of people anyway. Although reading it back, it all sounds very Jerry Springer.) :((



Sounds like you are well rid of both of them. Total lack of moral fibre the pair of them!!


Too right. Onwards and upwards to better things for GH hopefully.
Yes, at the risk of sounding glib (I had a horrible time, but am now pushing forward), it's worked out quite well for me in the end. A few years of awful depression and I somehow ended up with a lovely, much younger girl (16 years my junior - I'm 52). You mention moral fibre - she's a former army officer and now a barrister; straight as a die. And I met her when I was at my lowest - tried to put her off for weeks by telling her all the worst about me. After a while she said, "I know what you're doing, you know, and it's not working."
And this is the honest account of the ensuing conversation:
I said, "But you don't want to be with someone like me. I'm totally f***ed up".
She said, "Oh, you're not f***ed up. You just need a sex-mad, younger girlfriend".
And she's nursed me through the depression for two years, forgives all my rugby aches and pains as "that's what happens when you're an old man", and is pushing me to have more kids sooner rather than later (I'm up for it) on the grounds that, "I don't want to be changing your nappies while I'm still changing theirs!".
And she likes all the things about me that my wife used to hate.