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by Kiwias
Fri Feb 23, 2024 8:58 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Super Rugby 2024 - Rd 1. Chiefs Vs Crusaders
Replies: 187
Views: 4767

Re: Super Rugby 2024 - Rd 1. Chiefs Vs Crusaders

I’ll take that for the first match of the season with all the youngsters getting a good run and the old buggers showing they can still contribute. BP loss away is not too bad.
by Kiwias
Tue Jan 23, 2024 7:17 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

As I’m about to go my usual dry February, I’ve realised that moderation really is quite hard , even for those of us that aren’t alcoholics * . I’ve found my diet and the Noom app very useful for making sure my drinking doesn’t get stupid dangerous and out of hand . The calories alone !!!! Eliminati...
by Kiwias
Tue Jan 23, 2024 3:08 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

Jtah wrote: Mon Jan 22, 2024 9:45 am Nil by mouth for 24. Not sure how long it will last. Wouldn’t describe myself as a problem drinker but I know deep down that everything is better without it.
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Realising that is a pretty significant step. Hang in there but don't put too much pressure on yourself.
by Kiwias
Tue Jan 23, 2024 3:07 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

Gwenno wrote: Mon Jan 22, 2024 11:23 am
Kiwias wrote: Sun Jan 21, 2024 11:54 pm
Gwenno wrote: Sun Jan 21, 2024 11:30 pm Kiwi :thumbup: :thumbup: :smug: :smug:
Cheers, Gwenno. How's things with you these days?
Good thanks Kiwi, eldest son 6+ years sober and content. :thumbup:
Great to hear. Give him a big pat on the back from me.
by Kiwias
Mon Jan 22, 2024 11:23 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

Posted on 11 Jan 2024: “ 7,: days ago, on 11 January 2004 , I woke soaked in sweat from a brutal nightmare involving alcohol. ” It was twenty years ago today, etc Sgt Pepper taught the band to play Silly me My guess: one day at a time leads to not seeing the years for the days a la the wood for the...
by Kiwias
Mon Jan 22, 2024 10:51 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

Some great stories of people overcoming their problems in here :thumbup: Not that I had/have anything near what other people do but I think I drank on 5 separate occasions last year after REALLY overdoing it on the new eve 2022. Realised that when I drink I am a bit of a selfish asshole seeking any...
by Kiwias
Mon Jan 22, 2024 10:09 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

Kiwias, I am a tad surprised you didn’t work a Sgt Pepper’s reference into your 11 January post. I'm a long-term Beatles' fan but you have got lost me with this. Posted on 11 Jan 2024: “ 7,: days ago, on 11 January 2004 , I woke soaked in sweat from a brutal nightmare involving alcohol. ” It was tw...
by Kiwias
Mon Jan 22, 2024 9:18 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

You give the rest of us hope and courage with your quiet encouragement. May you have many more years of them. Your kind words have me close to tears. Thank you so much. Kiwias, I am a tad surprised you didn’t work a Sgt Pepper’s reference into your 11 January post. I'm a long-term Beatles' fan but ...
by Kiwias
Sun Jan 21, 2024 11:54 pm
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

Gwenno wrote: Sun Jan 21, 2024 11:30 pm Kiwi :thumbup: :thumbup: :smug: :smug:
Cheers, Gwenno. How's things with you these days?
by Kiwias
Sun Jan 21, 2024 11:53 pm
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

7,305 days ago, on 11 January 2004, I woke soaked in sweat from a brutal nightmare involving alcohol. I took our dog for her morning walk and when I sat down for breakfast, my wife passed me the contact information for the local sobriety support group, with a gentle "maybe it is time to give them a...
by Kiwias
Thu Jan 11, 2024 8:09 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

booji boy wrote: Thu Jan 11, 2024 6:26 am :thumbup: The rooms getting dusty pal.
I am not ashamed to admit I shed a tear or two at her words.
by Kiwias
Thu Jan 11, 2024 8:08 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

7,305 days ago, on 11 January 2004, I woke soaked in sweat from a brutal nightmare involving alcohol. I took our dog for her morning walk and when I sat down for breakfast, my wife passed me the contact information for the local sobriety support group, with a gentle "maybe it is time to give them a...
by Kiwias
Thu Jan 11, 2024 5:02 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

7,305 days ago, on 11 January 2004, I woke soaked in sweat from a brutal nightmare involving alcohol. I took our dog for her morning walk and when I sat down for breakfast, my wife passed me the contact information for the local sobriety support group, with a gentle "maybe it is time to give them a ...
by Kiwias
Fri Sep 29, 2023 9:07 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Official Bunnings Warehouse NPC 2023
Replies: 680
Views: 19945

Re: Official Bunnings Warehouse NPC 2023

Another absolute nail-biting end.

And even more important, after Enzed and I watch Canterbury defeat Waikato tomorrow, we will hang around the stadium and watch the black Ferns take on the Wallaroos.
by Kiwias
Wed Sep 27, 2023 6:21 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

I made the mistake yesterday to scroll back and find the post that you spoke of when you accompanied your son to an Al Anon meeting, but doing so while at work. The effort it took to compose myself and remain functional after reading that post and the ones immediately following it was something els...
by Kiwias
Wed Sep 27, 2023 6:16 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

I'm a Chiefs fan, but most definitely not a Mooloo fan, so wont be making the trip over. :D And miss a chance to watch the mighty Red & Blacks in action???? As I've likely mentioned many times before on here, the last time I attended a Red & Blacks v Mooloo match it was in Chch, I had a broken leg,...
by Kiwias
Mon Sep 25, 2023 12:38 pm
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

:thumbup: Got a bit dusty in my house while reading that. Also, good to see you here, you've been quiet of late? I spend most of my time over on the other side but will try to pop in here a bit more often. I really like this thread. What are you doing on Saturday, 30th? I'll be at the stadium in Ha...
by Kiwias
Mon Sep 25, 2023 9:41 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

:thumbup: Got a bit dusty in my house while reading that. Also, good to see you here, you've been quiet of late? I spend most of my time over on the other side but will try to pop in here a bit more often. I really like this thread. What are you doing on Saturday, 30th? I'll be at the stadium in Ha...
by Kiwias
Mon Sep 25, 2023 9:05 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

I had beers on Saturday night, first time since April this year and around the fourth time I have had drinks in 2023. I totally turned my life, mental health and fitness around since I stopped drinking. After around 35 years of being part of a drinking culture and being an alcoholic the last 2-3 ye...
by Kiwias
Mon Sep 25, 2023 9:02 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

It was today 19 years ago that I finally acknowledged that I am an alcoholic, listened to my wife, and contacted the local branch of DanShuKai (断酒会; a totally secular form of AA). Today marks the start of my sobriety, the second best decision of my life. The rest, as they say, is history. EPIC and ...
by Kiwias
Mon Sep 25, 2023 7:43 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Official Bunnings Warehouse NPC 2023
Replies: 680
Views: 19945

Re: Official Bunnings Warehouse NPC 2023

Kiwias here. I think I mentioned a while back that I will be in NZ from Wednesday and will be attending the Canterbury vs Waikato NPC match in Hamilton this coming Saturday with Enzed of this parish. I accept that the notice is pretty late but I wonder if anyone else might be able to join two elderl...
by Kiwias
Mon Sep 25, 2023 7:41 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

:thumbup: Got a bit dusty in my house while reading that. Also, good to see you here, you've been quiet of late? I spend most of my time over on the other side but will try to pop in here a bit more often. I really like this thread. What are you doing on Saturday, 30th? I'll be at the stadium in Ha...
by Kiwias
Mon Sep 25, 2023 6:24 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: quitting the bottle today
Replies: 3963
Views: 474120

Re: quitting the bottle today

A reminder popped up in my calendar yesterday - today is 2000 days since I quit. I had a long think about how I actually feel & discussed it with my family (who had to endure the worst of times between 10 & 6 years ago). While overall things are much better I realised that there are still lots of t...
by Kiwias
Sat Jul 22, 2023 7:39 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Will Billy Proctor and Ruben Love join the All Blacks on the plane to the World Cup?
Replies: 32
Views: 822

Re: Will Billy Proctor and Ruben Love join the All Blacks on the plane to the World Cup?

Greenavenger wrote: Sat Jul 22, 2023 5:25 am Both were sensational vs Japan. There were a few others that looked great too.
Love was playing 15 and Perofeta at 10.
by Kiwias
Sat Jul 15, 2023 8:14 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: TRC: All Blacks vs Springboks: Match Thread: Saturday 15th July
Replies: 1389
Views: 28685

Re: TRC: All Blacks vs Springboks: Match Thread: Saturday 15th July

hermie wrote: Sat Jul 15, 2023 8:06 am
AnkleTap wrote: Sat Jul 15, 2023 8:06 am
hermie wrote: Sat Jul 15, 2023 8:05 am Any links, asking for a friend?
https://www.viprow.nu/new-zealand-vs-so ... e-stream-1
Legend, thanks
https://www.vipbox.lc/new-zealand-vs-so ... ica-1-live
by Kiwias
Thu Jul 13, 2023 12:21 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Most Overrated 'First World' Country?
Replies: 243
Views: 7030

Re: Most Overrated 'First World' Country?

earl the beaver wrote: Wed Jul 12, 2023 11:07 am
Kiwias wrote: Wed Jul 12, 2023 10:33 am
Thomas wrote: Wed Jul 12, 2023 5:34 am

And a horribly racist place from all accounts.
Mainly toward Koreans and Chinese.
And black people apparently?

Well according to a Ugandan guy I used to work with
I thought that was a given, though young Japanese girls seem to have a soft spot for black people.
by Kiwias
Wed Jul 12, 2023 10:33 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Most Overrated 'First World' Country?
Replies: 243
Views: 7030

Re: Most Overrated 'First World' Country?

Thomas wrote: Wed Jul 12, 2023 5:34 am
Sensible Stephen wrote: Wed Jul 12, 2023 3:07 am Japan. A failed militaristic state propped up by the US to combat the threat of the USSR.
And a horribly racist place from all accounts.
Mainly toward Koreans and Chinese.
by Kiwias
Sat Jul 08, 2023 12:48 pm
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Japan XV Vs All Blacks XV - Match Thread
Replies: 122
Views: 2086

Re: Japan XV Vs All Blacks XV - Match Thread

Himeno was a disappointment, nothing near the dynamic player he was for the Clan a couple of years ago.
by Kiwias
Sat Jul 08, 2023 10:25 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Japan XV Vs All Blacks XV - Match Thread
Replies: 122
Views: 2086

Re: Japan XV Vs All Blacks XV - Match Thread

Thompson from the Chiefs.
by Kiwias
Sat Jul 08, 2023 10:24 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Japan XV Vs All Blacks XV - Match Thread
Replies: 122
Views: 2086

Re: Japan XV Vs All Blacks XV - Match Thread

Renowned AB Cameron replaces Perofeta at 10, loses ball on his first carry.
by Kiwias
Fri Jul 07, 2023 6:01 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Would you?
Replies: 34
Views: 1720

Re: Would you?

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by Kiwias
Tue Jul 04, 2023 2:28 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Your Country's worst ever XV
Replies: 203
Views: 5067

Re: Your Country's worst ever XV

Not that worst (although below average) but Todd Blackadder has to be the most underserving captain. It never ceases to amaze me how North Island posters constantly under rate players like Todd Blackadder and Reuben Thorne , yet year after year are left wondering why the Crusaders keep winning titl...
by Kiwias
Mon Jul 03, 2023 7:20 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Your Country's worst ever XV
Replies: 203
Views: 5067

Re: Your Country's worst ever XV

13 Howard Joseph over Graham Thorne Sam Broomhall instead of Reuben Thorne Hika Reid and Murdoch definitely not in the team This might be the first time I've come across the name of an AB in a really long time when I have not heard of him. Apparently he played solidly in one test and tripped over a...
by Kiwias
Mon Jul 03, 2023 7:17 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Your Country's worst ever XV
Replies: 203
Views: 5067

Re: Your Country's worst ever XV

Eugenius wrote: Mon Jul 03, 2023 4:58 am Howard who ?
It was either him or Phil Gard. Or put them together in the mid-field -- absolutely stunning mediocrity.
by Kiwias
Mon Jul 03, 2023 4:57 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Your Country's worst ever XV
Replies: 203
Views: 5067

Re: Your Country's worst ever XV

13 Howard Joseph over Graham Thorne

Sam Broomhall instead of Reuben Thorne

Hika Reid and Murdoch definitely not in the team
by Kiwias
Sat Jun 24, 2023 12:50 pm
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Super Rugby Pacific 2023 - The Final
Replies: 925
Views: 17652

Re: Super Rugby Pacific 2023 - The Final

Well done Crusaders- I thought the best team won. I also thought ScoBa was excellent - best lock on ground. Great finish for Robertson and the departing players. Gutted the chiefs couldn’t get up for the final - and for their departing players (especially Weber and BBBR). When DMAC made the break o...
by Kiwias
Sat Jun 24, 2023 10:10 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Super Rugby Pacific 2023 - The Final
Replies: 925
Views: 17652

Re: Super Rugby Pacific 2023 - The Final

Enzedder wrote: Sat Jun 24, 2023 10:01 am Mrs Enz here.

Sorry but Enz cannot post any more as he has chewed his nails down to the first joint.

He said " fudge you Bent", whatever that means .
:P
:lol: :lol: :lol:
by Kiwias
Sat Jun 24, 2023 9:54 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Super Rugby Pacific 2023 - The Final
Replies: 925
Views: 17652

Re: Super Rugby Pacific 2023 - The Final

Boring. Not the game, the result. New Zealand rugby is f**ked. If no team can compete against a single team, then we have big problems. I also can't see the ABs doing well with this deeply flawed system. Anyway, commiserations Chiefs, congratulations Crusaders. A sad day for New Zealand rugby. :lol...
by Kiwias
Sat Jun 24, 2023 9:53 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Super Rugby Pacific 2023 - The Final
Replies: 925
Views: 17652

Re: Super Rugby Pacific 2023 - The Final

Ali's Choice wrote: Sat Jun 24, 2023 9:51 am
Enzedder wrote: Sat Jun 24, 2023 9:48 am Bugger.
Your team was the most consistent team all year and that was the best final I can remember. Brilliant year for the Chiefs and you should be very proud. Now time for us to all come together as All Black fans.
What this bloke said. Stunning final by both sides
by Kiwias
Fri Jun 23, 2023 7:36 am
Forum: Rugby Forum
Topic: Super Rugby Pacific 2023 - The Final
Replies: 925
Views: 17652

Re: Super Rugby Pacific 2023 - The Final

Anyone here watch Two cents Rugby or distracted sports on Youtube? One of their combo videos out a couple of days ago had a great rant about how the Crusaders are responsible for the decline of Super Rugby and the general lack of interest that results from one team winning year after year. Can't sa...